We started about a year into our relationship. Took a couple of tries to find content we both liked but it opened up conversations about preferences we'd never have had otherwise. Genuinely positive for us.
The key for us was treating it as a conversation starter rather than the main event. Browse together, comment on what you notice. Way more interactive and less awkward than sitting in silence watching.
My ex was weird and secretive about porn and I now think that was a red flag. My current partner and I are completely open about it — watching together occasionally is genuinely good for communication.
Absolutely yes. It helped us figure out things about each other's preferences that we might never have expressed directly. Just be prepared for the occasional 'wait, you're into that?' moment.
