Mine's around 12. Stopped counting properly after a while — it stopped feeling like something worth tracking. Quality definitely mattered more as I got older. The wild casual phase was fun but exhausting.
4 for me. Long-term relationships most of my life. People act surprised when I say that but honestly I have zero regrets. Fewer doesn't mean less experience.
Somewhere around 18-20 I think. I went through a pretty free phase in my late twenties and I don't regret any of it. Life's too short to judge yourself for exploring.
3. Two serious relationships and one short thing in between. The low number doesn't bother me — I never really wanted casual. Glad I knew that about myself early.